The Cub's Lair

Be myself, be happy — An engibear's journey through Cloud Native, AI, and life.

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Christmas this year is so lonely—no dates, no company… Though I’m perfectly free, it’s incredibly quiet. Not having friends around is truly a sad thing indeed…

It seems opportunities are things you must fight for, rather than waiting for them to knock on your door. I built my website a while back, but no one ever reached out. Checking my inbox every day felt exactly like “waiting by the tree trunk for a hare to crash into it” (a fool’s hope).

By pure chance, I saw the “Flash Maestro” (闪客才女) “Yi Ye Xiao Zhou” (A Tiny Boat) featured on the homepage of Flash Empire. Habit took over, and I clicked through to her personal site. It had nothing but a forum—haha, such a legendary Flash designer, yet her site was just a forum! Suddenly, a spark lit up in my mind. Why not collaborate with her?

I tracked down her QQ number and started pitch-selling myself (if you can call it that). And just like that, I grabbed the opportunity. Now, I’m working hard, putting together her new portal site. That’s all for now—seize the opportunity, and show what you’ve got!

It seems like everyone around me can get under my skin, as if anyone can effortlessly control my emotions… Is this a common problem? Is everyone like this? Actually, if I could just let go of others’ opinions and focus on myself, I’d be so much happier, and life would be a breeze. It would be like a hidden paradise, a true sanctuary for the soul, a harbor to anchor and recharge. I wonder how many people in this world actually have such a sacred sanctuary. We, bumping around aimlessly, really yearn for it. Just like my mood blog—I don’t know who will read this, or what kind of person they’ll be, but none of that matters, because my heart is already open…

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